When your ex wife starts dating

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That pulling away will likely cause the new person (the rebound) to do the wrong things.

The wrong things include being clingy, needy, insecure, and trying to pull your ex closer to them. The bottom line is that if your ex starts dating during no contact, it has great potential to pull your ex back to you.

Second, if your ex is dating someone during no contact, especially if it started right away, it could be the proverbial rebound relationship.

Sometimes people are addicted to the intense feelings of being madly in love. If it is truly Limerence, with its strong pull of an increase in dopamine in the brain (and lots of oxytocin), than it’s likely temporary and could “spend itself broke” faster than a politician.

Instead of comparing yourself to others, look at how much you've grown, and be grateful for what you do have.

If you always want what others have, you will lose your authentic self and you will never have enough." Sarah Schewitz, Psy D is a psychologist with over 10 years of experience helping couples and individuals improve and change their patterns in love and relationships.

If you haven't already, set strong boundaries between yourself and your ex.Because your ex feels your continued distance, the new and shallow relationship will begin to lose its appeal. Because if yours was for longer and was serious, than your ex can feel the difference.Yours, likely, had commitment, companionship, inside jokes, treasured memories, and the hope of a future. That will usually cause your ex to pull away from the new person.After you did the right thing following being dumped by going into no contact, your ex has started dating someone else – someone new. That’s what I’m going to discuss in this post and I want you to know that there is still hope and that this is not the worst thing that could have happened. You don’t have to get your ex back immediately in order to get them back. In a Limerence Rebound, your ex is enchanted by the newness and the sparks of someone they don’t know or haven’t been romantic with or dated. ” is often said by cracking voice and followed by crying. As I will explain going forward, your best bet, by far, is still to remain in no contact and that means not reaching out to your ex by text, phone call, social message, smoke signals, letter, or any other form of communication at all if it can be helped (and it can). Your ex jumped into a relationship right away to fill the void left by their relationship with you.

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