How to go from dating to relationship
For starters, casual dating generally implies that you’re not planning to keep someone around long-term.
The trick is making sure you're both on the same page and each have the same expectations.
Why Do It: Social science research has long documented the benefits of serious and long-term dating. We may be very open with our partner and trust them completely, but still be looking for other potential partners.
Those that stay in such relationships are often healthier and happier than people who only casually date or remain single. We may also realize that our partner is not in the same place we are.
I’m interested to see where this relationship can go.” Stresses: We often begin exclusive dating relationships because we feel that we’re not likely to find someone we want to be with more than our new partner.
We may still keep our eyes open to other potential partners, but we will likely find it more difficult to find someone we feel is a better fit for us.
Now that you know the definition, you can ask yourself, "what’s the best way to pull off a casual relationship?
When we’re in serious relationships, we may find other people attractive, but we are not likely to think about others in terms of potential relationship partners.
We may fear a break-up and the emotional turmoil it would cause.
Our lives may also be intertwined with our partners, making the prospect of leaving very anxiety provoking.
Determining the seriousness of our relationship, however, can be very challenging and confusing. Laura Umphrey and John Sherblom, researchers from the Universities of Alaska and Maine (respectively), have simplified the process.
In one of their studies, they found the keys to understanding your relationship development–there are three distinct relationship stages and this is what each stage looks like.