Examples of dating game questions
This will tell you if they are willing to try marriage counseling and couples therapy to save their marriage first or go straight for divorce. This can tell you just how resourceful they are and if they give up easily. This is a question you need to talk about before marriage and an important one. This is going to allow you to know how important their family is to them. This can show you how they treat their friends and people that they care about. Think of the song “Live like you were dying” if you don’t know the song, look up the lyrics, it’s actually quite meaningful. What would you do if you were stranded on an island and there was nothing to eat? Call it Karma or the golden rule, the question is do they believe that you reap what you sew? Are they actively looking for love or is it a situation where life is good where I am right now but if love were to come along, I’m ready for it type thing. Things involving family and very close friends, effect people differently and leave certain issues with them emotionally, mentally, and on their soul. If we were to have kids what faith would you wish them to be raised in yours or mine (if you come from different faiths)? Our advice if it’s the latter, break it off and don’t look back. This could tell you if they are greedy, to giving, or a moderate who will save some, use some, and give some. This is going to tell you if they made a mistake once or they continually break the law. Is this something that they find embarrassing or just bad etiquette? If you won the lottery, what would you do with your money? This may not be drugs or alcohol or gambling either, there are many forms of addiction. This allows you to glimpse into their personal preferences, there is no right or wrong answer here unless you have tattoos or body piercings that they cannot accept about you. This one can tell you a couple of things, first do they fall in and out of love easily and second are they afraid of commitment. This will tell you how they handle anger, stress, and what they use as a way to resolve it. A glimpse of how they see themselves in life and what they wish to achieve. If you found a briefcase of money on the street, would you keep it? You should be able to tell if they are extremely prideful or maybe they lack belief in their own worth. What’s the length of your longest romantic relationship? While being impulsive can be fun, it can also lead to disastrous financial problems if they are too impulsive when making purchases. Have you ever hit the person you have been involved with? This can tell you what they take seriously and don’t take seriously. This will let you know if you like the same kind of movies, action, drama, comedy. This will tell you what they are interested in, fame, inventing things, teaching others, helping others such as doctors or EMTs, firemen, policemen. Again this will tell you if you like the same kind of music, smooth jazz, classic rock, country. If you could be anyone else for a day, who would you choose? This will tell you if they plan or go with the flow, do they brew their own coffee or buy a cup on the way?
Drugs, alcohol, gambling, and well you get the idea. What do you consider the five biggest strengths of your personality? You shouldn’t drink and drive so the next question is will you do it again? If you have been on a date or two and they start talking marriage, that is fast and you may wish to slow that down. What did you do during the summers when you were growing up? This will tell you if they see everything as a competition they need to win 51. This tells you if they prefer lots of people or alone time with you.
This will give you an idea of what kind of relationship they have with siblings if they have any. At that point, you might want to ask why, as they may not see the way others do. If you don’t want to have drama in your life or relationship then you need to discuss ways to avoid it and not create it if it is a factor. Are you a priority or is it their job first, their friends, fun, and then you. This will be insightful, do they see beauty as an outward or inward beauty or a combination of both and in which way. How would you handle one or the other of us being offered a dream job but having to move in order to take it?
This is going to let you in on what they dislike about themselves. This also allows you to know how serious the other is about their faith. Do you have a lot of drama or negativity in your life? This may seem like we have already covered it and in a roundabout way maybe we have, but this point blank sets the stages to see just where their priorities lay and this is important.
this can tell you what kind of weather and weather related activities they like. This will give you an insight into their sense of humor.
Maybe it’s Halloween, Thanksgiving or Christmas, be sure to ask why. Will just being there help or will you need something more. A glimpse at what they really think is important when it comes to luxuries or material items. What is the wackiest gift you have ever received or given someone? The willingness of an answer on this shows you they have some amount of trust in you.