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Simply put, I can see why people are not interested in dating if all their experiences have only resulted in: For some people, relationships won’t bring anything but misery into their lives.
And this may be due to their behaviour, actions and/or beliefs about relationships, and what they signify.
I intend to answer a few pertinent questions that have been on my mind for a very long time, around the subject of dating and relationships.
Photo by Freddie Marriage/Unsplash Quite an assertion to make I know, yet it is one that requires honest introspection into your characteristics and mannerisms.
I was doing it “just because” – there was no autonomous thinking behind it. Relationships might be the bread and butter of your existence and happiness – and thus it is a requirement for you to feel ‘whole’ and ‘complete’.
Understanding what you want from a relationship has become more important than ever.
When I was young, dumb and immature – I had this belief that relationships, marriage, children and monogamy were an absolute necessity in life.
During my teens I treated this as if it was a rudimentary aspect of being an adult in the 21st century, and the next step in life; ‘the right direction’, if you will.
However on the other side, some people don’t deserve to have healthy relationships purely because they lack the essential qualities required to make it work. They want loving relationships but they want to control everything in the process.
He must be: Not once have I witnessed a group of people talk about what they can provide to others, or how they intend to strengthen and improve the relationship as time goes on.
This isn’t necessarily a bad thing, but it does make me question the reasons behind why some select individuals get into a relationship in the first place. I feel that people are making their love lives harder because they continue to place more and more obstacles in front of themselves and their happiness.
Is personal gain and self-fulfillment the main goal? Heavy expectations leads to a lack of appreciation of what one has.
This lack of appreciation will then lead to entitlement which results in perpetual disappointment and unhappiness.